I believe m, this is where they don’t pull baby out, they just cut you open and leave baby to wriggle themselves out in a word.
Ive had two sections, one planned due to IUGR and baby couldn’t stay in any longer a any placenta was failing.
and one emergency as my water went but labour didn’t progress.
In both instances it was very calm and a good enough experience, I probably had a better than average experience of a c-section. I didn’t lose much blood - blood pressure was a bit funny on the second one but nothing traumatic happened, they just kept pumping me with another drug when I felt a bit nauseous.
but in both instances, I would have wanted them to ‘leave’ baby in me while I lay there cut open like a half-filleted fish. I wanted baby out, checked and in my arms.
Also, a small number of c-section babies can sometimes have difficult breathing as they don’t get ‘squished’ through the birth canal which is what expels a lot of the fluids from their lungs - so to me I’d rather they were out and made sure they’re healthy rather than faffing around waiting for baby to find the exit.
the ‘pushing’ and ‘tugging’ is barely anything, although I was given too much anaesthetic on both of my sections to where I was numb to the neck (a bit weird as it feels like you’re not breathing) so I was extra, extra numb 😂 so my first baby I felt literally nothing, but she was tiny anyway, second baby I felt a bit of tugging and could see my body moving where they were obviously pushing baby down but felt nothing but pressure.
I don’t understand the benefits of a gentle c-section, but that’s maybe because I’ve not e necessarily had one 🙈