Currently 28 weeks, baby number 2 and considering a homebirth.
Baby number 1 was born in hospital; at home til 5cm, then midwife led unit til I got too exhausted and wanted an epidural, moved to consultant led unit, but there wasn't time for an epidural in the end anyway. Baby was born via ventouse when heart rate dropped shortly after moving wards. She had also got the cord wrapped around her neck and this is something putting me off a homebirth this time around (and is what's massively putting my fiance off it too, so he will take some persuading). From what I've read since, this can happen quite a lot though and is often not dangerous?! Still, it is what's holding me back. Did anyone have anything similar for baby 1, but went for a homebirth for baby 2 anyway? Or considered it, but ultimately decided on hospital? What made you decide either way? Any advise for persuading fiance if I do decide I'd like to go for it?
In case I would like to try for a homebirth though, I'm trying to figure out logistics. I wasn't keen on a water birth for baby 1 (the idea of me and newborn swimming in various bodily fluids freaked me out a bit), but I'm somehow not quite so averse to it this time and would probably try it if in hospital. But at home, the idea of setting it up, getting the water in and then getting it out (likely not from the ground floor of our house), dismantling it etc seems such a faff. And the midwife said in an emergency they'd cut me out of it, flooding the room! So it seems like a lot of bother. So I'm just wondering, those who did do a home water birth, how did you sort these logistics? And anyone who didn't, where/how did you labour and birth at home and what did you do to limit the mess?!
Any advice much appreciated
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Homebirth advice (not waterbirth?)
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Flymeaway4 · 31/05/2022 21:05
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