I had an EMCS last year, had it at around 5pm, husband held DD in recovery room whilst I was being stitched then I joined him where she fed and stayed there for an hour (just the three of us and one nurse) Tip: definitely ask for skin-to-skin, I forgot as it was a rush and only got a couple of seconds before she was handed to DH.
Then got wheeled to the ward. Where I didn't get tea and toast and I'd missed dinner, and hadn't eaten since breakfast so I was starving, I asked if they'd got anything and there was a sandwich leftover from lunch so I had that. Tip: take something substantial to eat or send partner to get something if the hospital has a cafe
Was unable to feel my legs at all until around 10, DH had managed to stay that long (he was officially allowed in 10-8) but we heard a member of staff saying someone would have to ask him to leave so he went then. I was unable to sit up overnight so rang the bell every time DD needed to feed/be changed and they were amazing, they came so quickly and couldn't have been more helpful. Tip: ask for help if you need it, and don't believe that all wards have unhelpful midwives and nurses, I was so well looked after (apart from the lack of food to start with!)
I had the catheter out at 6am and had to wee by 12, I think I eventually needed to wee at 11 so shuffled to the loo then felt so woozy by the time I got back, and DH said I looked grey! I spoke to the staff and they did a blood test to check my iron wasn't low, it wasn't and after I sat down for an hour I felt better. I was worried for the rest of the day it was going to happen again though so I asked to stay another night, I wish I hadn't though because that night I still struggled to lean over and pick up DD but felt like I couldn't bother the staff so much. Tip: be prepared to feel woozy and don't get scared!
The next day I was so ready to go home and asked to be discharged which took ages so was there until 5.
I didn't shower when I was there because it looked grim, I did wash though and wasn't told I had to shower like it seems others were.
I also didn't get gas and got to take the bottle of oral morphine home with me which was a life saver but I don't think that's usual across most trusts.