Background: had my daughter at 40+2 in September 2020. Had an emergency section at 10cm after 2 hours of pushing and had a major PPH and blood transfusion. My dd was transverse.
I'm due my second baby between 23rd - 27th December. According to my dates (and I was spot on with my dd), most likely 27th.
I'm completely torn between an elcs and vbac. I think I'm a good candidate for a vbac due to going into spontaneous labour and fully dilating but there's a lot to factor in. I'm terrified of another section, especially an emergency. I'll have a toddler to contend with this time. Second babies are often early and I could have a baby born on Christmas Day if I leave it to fate! My dh is terrified of me having another (frightening) emcs and would rather I opted for an elective. I'm on the VBAC UK Facebook group but I don't find it gives balanced experiences of either (obviously - promoting VBAC).
So for those of you that have had to make your minds up about VBAC vs ELCS, what did you go for and why?