I had an elective section, vaginal birth wasn't an option & I discussed many of the things mentioned in the article with the dr & midwife beforehand.
I had a wonderful experience - I saw my baby being born, he was delivered onto my tummy, dh cut the cord, we had skin to skin in theatre & recovery (ds actually fed in theatre), I asked that everyone was quiet and calm & not chatting about golf etc while ds was born. The midwife made sure there weren't any bright lights shining in my face, little things like that that make you feel like a human being not a slab of meat.
I think the term 'natural' caesarean is unfortunate, I'm bloody glad it wasn't left to nature because ds & I wouldn't have survived. Why shouldn't women who birth by csections be allowed to do these things? I sometimes feel that people feel skin to skin, delayed clamping etc should be the preserve of the natural birth only as if csection mother & babies have lost the right to the exciting/bonding bits of birth as a punishment for taking 'the easy way out'.