Hi CapeTownMommy,
sorry I never use mumsnet and not sure if I’m writing this in the correct place, I hope so! Just writing to help support
so sorry MrsSuzieG I never managed back to your reply, was very kind of you to write back with your support, just knowing I wasn’t alone did really help me!
I’m really sorry you’ve been diagnosed with round ligament varicosites aswell :( and early on as well that’s very hard for you. Firstly I will start with the positive, although it was very hard to get through at the time/come to terms with during my pregnancy now that it’s behind me it’s almost like a bad dream that I remember but happened to someone else if that makes sense! And I’m currently cuddling my beautiful 5 month old daughter while she naps on me so that really helps :) so firstly I want to stress, because that was my real worry- it does go away after delivery!
the not so good bits, it is a very tricky condition to manage symptom wise, mine came on bilateral (although the left side was the only side that was really painful and was larger, the right didn’t bother me too much) at around 25weeks, as my pregnancy progressed they did increase in size somewhat, not hugely though and yes with each increase in size the pain did escalate for a few days then it did sort of plateau as you say. I did always get relief lying down/on my side and some relief while sitting, however yes after any time standing did become very uncomfortable/quite painful. Although horrible to live with, I would say to a degree I got used to it after having them for so long. In terms of symptom management, quite tricky because mine were really quite painful after any length of standing so I didn’t even bother with painkillers because would have needed very strong ones and didn’t want to take anything in pregnancy so tried to manage with frequent sitting down if I was walking somewhere etc. I did try an inguinal hernia belt on and off in the third trimester that did give me some relief at times, but again just check with your own healthcare provider they are happy for you to do this.
I managed to avoid needing any blood thinners the whole pregnancy because my other risk factors were low but there is a small risk they can clot but again your obstetrician will discuss this with you. In the end my daughter was breech from 32 weeks right up until delivery at 39wks so I had a planned section and all went well there, I was worried I would bleed heavily because of the varicosities but actually had very little blood loss. On day 1 post delivery the varicosities had already started to disappear but day 3-4 they had completely gone. And to give you some hope- they never gave me any bother again, like I said I could almost forget that happened to me! Now I will say, it was very hard at times so much so i think it has put me off considering any further pregnancies, but again that is just personal to me and like I said I have my beautiful healthy happy daughter so that helps with the emotional healing! But yes very hard, and agreed very little information out there, in the end I had a very supportive obstetric consultant who had seen 2 cases before so that really helped.
In summary yes very hard symptom wise at times to manage but the weeks do go in and then your wee baba will be here and then they will go away, sending you all the best and thoughts and please message if you have any other questions/I can help in any way, and congratulations on your pregnancy :) xx