I am 29 weeks pregnant and still at the stage of exploring my options. I have boked a doula to be with me at the birth, assuming that I wil go ahead with a natural birth (still considering elective C-section after traumatic 1st birth). Last week I broached the subject of homebirth with my midwife. She was very supportive of the idea, but felt the need to tell me that there's a small but realistic chance that I might not be 'allowed' a homebirth on the day. If I went ino labour during the day, the community midwives would definitely be available to attend the birth at home. However, if I went into labour at night, there might not be a midwife available to come to me. Our hospital is very short staffed (aren't they all?), and at night there are 2 midwives at the hospital who are allocated to cover homebirths (I think this might be for the whole county!) and if one is sick, or is covering someone on delivery suite for some reason, I might be forced to go to hospital to give birth. I can kind of see the logic in what she was telling me, but I'm not happy about it. When pushed, she estimated that this happens to approx 1 in 10 ladies having homebirths (sent to hosp for staffing reasons, not medical problems).
What are your experiences of this? Does it sound normal? Can I do anything to insist on a homebirth (short of staying at home without any mw, which I would definitely not do)?
My issues around this birth are mostly anxiety-related, so as far as possible I want to plan my options, although I will be ready to change my mind at any stage. I don't want to plan a homebirth if it might not be an option. Of course, if I needed to go to hospital for medical reasons, that's a totally different matter.
I hope this makes sense and that people will be able to help, or at least give opinions.
Thanks