I had an appointment a couple of days before hand to discuss any concerns I might have, what the procedure would entail/the risks that were involved and to do a final check on baby's position and BP etc and to sign the consent form.
I had to be at the hospital for 8:00am and after a check by the midwife, I got into my rahter attractive gown and support stockings. A further chat with the anaesthetist and surgeon, and I was given my premed...an antacid and anti emetic as previously mentioned.
I then had to wait a bit while the women ahead of me were done. I was taken up to the recovery ward to drop off my bags at about 10:15, then waddled through to the anaesthetic room where I was given a combined spinal and epidural. It was a bit uncomfortable; more so than with my previous emergency, but maybe because I was alert and aware rather than drugged to the eyeballs and knackered after a 48 hour labour!
I could hear the baby of the woman before me making it's first cries which was odd! After a bit, I was wheeled into the theatre and my DD was delivered at 11:33. After she was checked over, and helped a bit (elective babies often need more help than natural births, so try not to be alarmed (I din't know this and spent a very worried few minutes), then she was handed to my DH for a cuddle and to start getting to know her. I had a bit of a cuddle as well while they were stitching me up, then DH watched her get weighed etc whilst they transferred me to a bed and took me through to recovery. We went straight for some skin to skin contact and she was feeding (and I was having some tea and toast) about 15 minutes after she was born. We were kept in recovery for a couple of hourse before being transferred to the ward.
I was up in my chair having tea at about 5pm, and the catheter was taken out around midnight as I was getting to and from the loo OK.
I stayed in for four days; partly because my recovery was slow, but partly I had some AND/PND issues as well. I paid for a side ward and it was the best thing to have done as we were pretty much left in peace so got our bonding and feeding off to a flying start woithout all the usual noise of the ward. I managed some sleep as well which was invaluable.
I took in my own blanket for wrapping her in on the recovery ward, and could have had music as well. There is nothing to stop you doing a birth plan, and you can choose to find out the sex for yourselves, your DP may be allowed to cut the cord (strong stomach required). you can ask for quiet so the first voice your baby hears is yours, have music etc. Most hospitals are happy to do this.
I have some stuff about C section birth plans that I was sent by the lovely MarsLady. If you e-mail me on daisybump at yahoo dot co dot uk, I can send them to you
good Luck!