Good luck for tomorrow!
A brief summary of how my induction (as I was also 2 weeks late) went.
Firstly: I can say that despite all this departing in every respect from my birthplan, I look back on the experience (a year ago) and consider the birth a very positive experience, and was absolutely confident that I was given the right care.
I was told to go in at 8pm, they found me a bed at midnight (DH left the hospital) and gave me the gel at 1am (it stings like * to start with). I managed to sleep until they woke me at 6am - gave me an internal exam and broke my waters with a long pointy thing (not painful). This was quite a shock as I hadn't epected all this warm liquid to come pouring out!
Mild contractions started, and I was mobile and getting on fine (so I thought). DH returned at 10am and stayed until the birth. But then they decided to put me on the syntocinon drip as I wasn't progressing much. This was at 1pm. Initially it was a low dose, and I was fine using a TENS. But then they upped it and the pain kicked in. But still I wasn't dilating - so they upped it some more. I have to say that gas and air wasn't enough for me - and I asked for an epidural at 8pm (eventually got it at 9pm - be prepared for a wait as the anaesthatists may be in theatre). I really hadn't wanted an epidural - but sometimes you just have to do what you need.
Then at 2am they said I still wasn't dilating properly (I was only 3cm after 24 hours labour). So I agreed to have a c-section as DS was in a bit of distress. Again, having a c-section horrified me - but in then end it was absolutely fine. A couple of hints: they lay you on a VERY narrow operating table and I thought I was going to fall off - but I didn't. Secondly, I started to shake like mad just before they started the op. That scared the living daylights out of me and DH - but apparently it is normal.
5 minutes later I had a GORGEOUS DS! DH gave him skin-to-skin while we were still in theatre and they let me hold him when I was wheeled back to the ward.
The after-care is always a bit ropey - and most of my friends agreed that you do go through moments of desperation during this time.
Most of all, have the courage to ask questions whenever you want - I would think that not knowing why/what the nurses are doing would be very worrying. Also, your birth partner MUST be on their toes and ask questions/challenge (nicely!)/ask "what if" and "why now"? things if he thinks they need to be. I had to give DH a bit of an earful at one point (he was not being proactive- and both he an I were glad that we did ask so many questions/chalenge things).
Very best wishes.