Hello,
I know there are some very knowledgeable people on here including mums who’ve been there and medical professionals so I’m after some insight.
I am 23 weeks preg with number 2 and have a very strong desire for a natural birth this time. I’m not quite sure where it comes from but perhaps I have some deeply buried trauma from my emcs but I am just desperate to avoid it again! My appointment with a consultant to discuss vbac is not for several weeks but my midwife has dropped a few hints that they don’t altogether love vbacs. She has said things like ‘now we won’t want you to go overdue so we will recommend inductions at 40 weeks’ etc.
For background, my first birth went roughly like this: straightforward low risk pregnancy, wanted birth centre water birth etc etc, baby wasn’t forthcoming and I never started spontaneous labour, induced by oxytocin drip at 42 weeks, laboured for 13 hours, got to pushing but she still wasn’t budging, tried assisted delivery, failed so had a c section.
It was all extremely rushed and although I was extremely grateful for my beautiful healthy baby I just felt like it was all taken out of my hands a bit. I would like more control this time.
I guess I’m asking for any reassurance of your own vbac stories. Or anyone who knows about the real risks so I don’t feel rail roaded into being induced before I’m ready as I know they so often end in emcs. I just really want this birth to be a more positive experience.
Thanks 