I don't want sex with my husband and haven't ever since I gave birth to my first son. He is now 15 months old! I have no sex drive whatsoever. I didn't during pregnancy either. I do breastfeed (non negotiable, won't be giving that up!) so wondered if it was hormones.
It's not an issue just with my husband - I don't want sex with anyone. We have a good relationship and would call each other best friends. I do love him but would say I don't find him madly good looking, I was always attracted to his sense of humour, adventurous nature and general personality. He is great. Looks has never been a problem but sometimes I do find myself wishing (rather shallow!) that his looks blew me away.
We have had sex probably maximum once a month since baby arrived. I have probably genuinely enjoyed it two or three times and the other times just got on with it. I recently stopped him halfway through and just had to be honest that I didn't want to do it! I can't pretend.
Any help?! Has anyone not wanted sex for so long after childbirth?!