Hi @heartcurrent1 sorry to pick up this thread after a few days, I’ve just seen this and thought I’d share my experience.
I had a csection under GA which was an emergency rather than planned.
In all honesty, the GA for me was fine. DD was about 3 hours old when I came round post surgery and she was dressed and being held by my DH. I didn’t know who she was as I had no recollection of being in theatre/having her which was upsetting, but it was only afterwards when I thought about it once home that it was upsetting iyswim, it wasn’t upsetting in the moment.
They undressed her and placed her on my chest for skin to skin and she did the crawl and latched immediately. Feeding wasn’t an issue until a few weeks later when I developed an infection.
DD was full of drugs from the GA and very drowsy for the first few days but nobody had told me to expect that so I was worried something was wrong as she wasn’t screaming all the time.
No issues with bonding. My DH found it hard as he was prepped in scrubs to come with me but was then kicked out when it changed to GA so he knew there was a problem. He was taken back to the room to wait. He had to wait to hear DD was ok and born, and then that I was ok much later as it’s riskier with a GA. They bought DD out and gave her to him after they’d checked her over but long before he heard about how I was. He didn’t know what to do with her and was very worried about me, but the staff were great at helping him, although I think this was because they had a student and were showing her the ropes.
I’m a huge needle and hospital phobe. I was terrified of a section and all things related to it but it was fine, i had to have fragmin injections daily afterwards for 10 days as I’d been immobile longer because of the GA which were not pleasant. The catheter was a bit grim but manageable, as were the IVs (one in each arm for me), you will need to stay in hospital longer too. They told me to ring the bell every time I needed DD to feed as I couldn’t move but thankfully they let DH stay over (on the floor) to help as they were short staffed and I imagine it would have been a problem to have her for feeds etc and I’d (rightly) have had to wait for others first while she cried.
If I have DC2 it’ll be a planned section and despite my fears I’d be hoping for a successful epidural/spinal as I’d need to be more mobile sooner so DH could be with DD at home and get some sleep rather than sleeping on the floor.
They did let me use gas and air for the epidural before I went to theatre which may help you if you decided against a GA.
Overall my experience was positive but it’s not without its downsides. I hope this helps