Hello!
I'm looking to have a VBAC for my second baby. I would love to have a vaginal birth (I'm a kg hypnobirthing teacher so it comes with the territory) however I know that there are time limits to how long they'll let you remain in the first stage of labour, and I don't want to be in that situation (where I know there's a time limit) because I know the subconscious effect that could have on my body in labour.
Can anyone tell me what happens if you reach that limit (I believe it's usually 10 hours) if you aren't at the second stage? Do you still have choices? Or is it straight to theatre? And what if you have a HBAC (home birth after caesarean)? Do the same time limits apply?
I guess I want to feel reassured that I'll have choices and will be able to say no to anything I don't want (I'm already planning to say no to constant foetal monitoring). KGH teaches you that you ALWAYS have choices, but having already experienced one birth, I'm aware that it does not always feel that way.
Any light anyone can shed would be much appreciated :)