Sorry about the over gory title. I'm hoping some of you wise people can help.
The story is:
- I had a baby 8 weeks ago. Delivery was pretty quick and I had a small perineal tear - no stitches. I have felt fine and fully recovered since the birth.
- Since the birth, but especially in the last few weeks, I have noticed that when I pass wind (how ladylike!) it can find its way to my vagina. As in... I pass wind, stand up and am still passing wind from the wrong hole.
- I have also noticed a couple of times that I have discharge that is a bit brown in colour. It's not obviously poo, but isn't like any discharge I've ever seen. I stopped bleeding ages ago. It is gross.
So I guess I am hoping that there is an innocuous reason.. ie... my pelvic floor is now worth nothing. Or that it's just a random occurance that I have brownish discharge. Is it possible to have a small tear that allows wind/poo to emerge? If so, what can I do??? [really hoping it's not this emoticon]
Does anyone have any advice or experience to share? Many many thanks in advance. I have to say despite losing all reserves in childbirth, I am feeling pretty embarrassed and mortified about this one...