The experience was positive. Home 24 hours later.
My Husband stayed the night but he only had a chair to sleep on Take a blow up bed and bedding for your birth partner. You will need them to stay with you as you will be bed bound.
Surgery itself was a good experience. Very surreal not being able to feel anything, but it was over very fast. We did wait ALL day though, so i was STARVING!!! And a little shaky, so the meds they gave me made me feel very iccky!
Recovery was fine, I was looked after very well. They come round with meds but if you feel like you need more - ring that bell....! They will always give you more if they can.
Sickness - I felt iccky afterwards, so i had an anti sickness jab which helped loads.
Coughing - ouch!!!!!!! Now that bloody hurts....! Watch out for that..!
You will need to get out of bed the next day, have a shower and pee 3 times before they will let you home- its agony!! But each step really does get easier. The best thing I did was force myself to stand up straight, it will make you cry, but its worth it, once you are up and moving - its not that bad..!
Keep up with your meds and your blood thinning injections!
Rest rest rest - its major surgery.
Help help help - utilise your hubby and friends/family to the max
By 6 weeks by scar and closed up, its almost unnoticeable now! and i was driving. Now at 5 months I'm training for a 10k run and i ride my horse once a week.
It will be different for you with a 2 year old, but you must give yourself time to heal
Breastmilk - it will take a little longer for milk to Come in (5-7 days it took for me!)