Hi all, sorry this may be a long one but I’m hoping for a little bit of advice please!
I’m pregnant with my second child, my first was born spontaneously at 39+6.
With this baby however I’ve been having growth scans, and baby was found to be on the 10th centile at 28 weeks which they were fine with. However on my second scan they were just above the 5th line and the third scan at 36 weeks they’d moved to just on the 5th (5lb 2oz for me).
We thought as during the 4 week gap they’d stayed pretty much consistent, and nobody had mentioned intervening if anything had stayed the same, they’d have just kept monitoring us in case she stopped growing.
Instead the consultant said she wanted to induce at 37+4.
I was so shocked and taken aback that I didn’t ask any questions, I know I should have really, and just said O.K, I didn’t even know you could argue as to why with them until I did a little more research.
After looking into induction at this gestation, I‘be read that there are more long term health problems prevalent in babies born ‘early term’ as opposed to 39/40+ weeks.
I really don’t want to have our baby and then find that their lungs aren’t ready, or they can’t suck because they’re not ready, and end up with them being in NICU for the first few days/weeks of life, I know none of us do!
I also don’t want to possibly burden my child with respiratory issues in early and later life as I’ve chosen to have this induction, despite everything else (placenta function/blood flow/movements etc) being absolutely fine and it just being down to her being small.
My main questions are; has anybody been in the same situation before (early term and low birth weight)? How did you come to your decision? If you went ahead have you found they’ve been more prone to illness? Were they able to come home straight away or were they sent to the NICU?
You hear the old ‘such and such happened but they’re now a perfectly happy and healthy 3 year old’ a lot, but you don’t tend to get those who have found issues saying much about them.
I’m seeing my MW (midwife) tomorrow and I’m hoping to get all of my questions in order tonight, so any help would be so appreciated.