Hi all, really interested in advice and experiences as I'm going to my VBAC consultant appt in a few weeks to discuss my birth plans.
I'm pretty set on a homebirth but I anticipate friction on this due to my first birth. It didn't go well. My feeling is because it was a badly managed induction and is a lot of the reason I don't want to be in hospital at all. I'll explain his birth below.
I'm open to honest opinions, stories of VBAC and any knowledge anyone had. I didn't even consider it for my first!
my son is now 13. I was 24 when I had him and looked about 16 and was treated like a naughty teen.
Was induced at 37 weeks due to no growth being noted on 36 week scan. I believe 32 week scan was inaccurate as put baby at 8lbs! Having lots of scans due to big babies being in family (my cousin was 13lb2 😳)
Induction went quickly waters broke after one pessary and I had contractions immediately. Was encouraged to be active so moved a lot walked around the hospital etc.
16 hours later I was 3 cm drip was prescribed but never given.
30 hours still 3cm and begging for rest and pain relief. Am shaking and boiling and told I'm in shock. Contractions every 2 mins for 7 hours at this stage.
Given epidural. Relief. Unable to rest as told that baby is in distress. Prepped for c section.
33 hours C section and baby born 7lb6oz. Baby healthy.
I crashed however. I had sepsis and was very unwell. 2 week hospital stay and external pacer for a time as was very weak.