am here !!!!
she should ask for a scan to determine baby's exact position..and take heart..there was someone i was supporting antenatally, baby breech, tried everyting, stayed breech, waters broke 10 days early, went to hospital , found baby was vertex, and delivered vaginally a few hours later !!!
re needle in her spine..for an elective, there is less trauma and rushing around, so giving the epi or spinal block is not being done mid contractions or after a long labour
so that makes it less stressful.....
also, she won;t be able to see the needle, so that helps, and the anesthatist will be used to anxious and emotional women..and should be sympathetic
if she is so terrified, she can of course ask for a general, but the implications of that are that she will miss the first hour or so of her babies life, that she will be groggy and out of it for a while, and that she might find it harder to establish breastfeeding....
also GA crosses the placenta and it means baby has to be got out ASAP
she needs to talk to her midwife and express her fears and find out her options