Planning

[Alicia87721]

Hi. I'm just wondering if my midwife will talk to me about a birth plan. I'm 32 weeks pregnant and nobody has mentioned it. I'm 17 and wondering what would I be best doing and any tips? I'm very scared. But can't wait to meet my little boy❤️

I think birth plans, and having them written down is a very American thing. Doesn't generally apply here especially for NHS birth. So long as you're informed of what your options are you will probably feel more in control of your birth.
But being open to your 'plan' going out the window and doing what baby wants is best!
My plan for my first was a water birth was gas and air at the maximum, didn't manage to get the plugs in before she was coming and then they almost tried an episiotomy, which they would have done without discussion unless I explicitly said to them I was not consenting to as they prepped to do it. In the end, I didn't even tear and all was well!

Research into pain relief, and a quick look at what each procedure they could do means, but most importantly reading up on breathing techniques and calming techniques. They rest the midwives talk you through, and never be shy to ask them to help you do absolutely anything

My midwife discusses it at either 34 or 36 week appointment.

Congratulations on your little boy!

You can ask your midwife if they do a class. I went on one and it explained the different pain relief and some things that might happen. It was really useful.

If they don't do a class, your midwife should talk about what can happen in childbirth and what choices you would have in different situations.

I don't think there's any best thing to do. Just what you think will be best for you. And maybe think of what you might want if different things happen, like if your labour is very long or very quick.

Ask questions if you have any. Like what are the pros and cons of everything. You can ask the midwifes before and during your labour.