I had never heard of pethadine or diamorphine until after reading it in my post labour notes. It was never discussed as an option for pain relief, I think I was quite naive going into it.
When the time came and the midwife asked if I’d thought about pain relief (it must have been obvious I was suffering 🙈), I told her I didn’t want an epidural and she offered me additional pain relief.
It was injection which I thought was in my butt my apparently it was my thigh. It absolutely knocked me for six. My dp videod it and it’s quite shocking 🙈
As soon as it was time to push, it was like I snapped out of it and knew what I had to do. I remember feeling sick, I couldn’t pee, I had to have 2 catheters but as crazy as this sounds, I absolutely loved my labour!
I remember the pushing feeling (my dp and mum often remind me of when I screamed “it burns, it burns”). It was enough to take the edge of but enough that I remember every feeling etc...
Lo bf like a dream, i did on one occasion ask the midwife for help as didn’t know how to hold her properly when feeding but I think that would have been the same regardless.
I only had gas and air second time round and lo really struggled to bf.
I don’t know if that helps at all but hopefully a little insigh into it. Whatever you choose, I hope it’s a lovely (and not too painful) experience.