Dear moms those who's recently had a planned C-Section in Chelsea Westminster Hospital at either NHS or Kensington Wing please help!
I am in agony after I've met Mark Johnson and Nick Wales during my recent A&E NHS hospitalization at 32 weeks, and later Keith Duncan at Kensington Wing and all 3 said that I shall have ELCS following a traumatic 1st labor.
(The 1st one was at UCLH via NHS and was horrible. The birth itself was messed up by midwifes who broke my waters and put me in swimming pool for 3h where contractions stopped completely and both me and the baby got an infection. Then with baby distress and me having 39C fever they transferred me to operations theater for EMCS which I resisted and ended up with 3b tear, episiotomy and forecepts and baby being taken to NICU for Xrays, etc. and both of us being put on antibiotics for a week. The recovery was 6m long and painful with bowel urge and flatulence and I am still having pain from sex and don't enjoy it that much anymore. The after-care was also terrible with one midwife yelling at me for spilling urine that ran over the paper bowl that she gave me - that's after >36h in labour, .1h spent on stitching me up and being fit with a painful urine catheter for a couple of days! Also had to stay on a very hot, noisy and poorly cleaned 6-women ward for the first 3 days as private rooms were not available).
So, after spending 3 nights at CWH NHS Ward lately I've reflected on my NHS UCLH experience and got rather nervous about a bunch of inexperienced 20y.o. midwifes and "doctors" who look like children to me and often talk cluelessly about pregnancy matters and other medical issues. In 6 shifts I saw just 1 midwife looking ~40y.o. who appeared trustworthy to me.
While I was staying in a private en-suite room due to flu, I could hear couple of midwifes coughing all night long at their station and in the corridor w/o any mask on - and they were attending to moms with newborn babies and pregnant women hospitalized with various complications.
Also, my room was not cleaned before I was put there with dirty surfaces throughout and filthy dirty fridge. I had to get gloves and Clenex wipes outside the room myself and clean it all! Also, I had to demand a cleaner to come by 2nd day stay to clear the trash bins that were full over the top. The one that came threw trash bags (thankfully new ones) on my pillow and looked angry when I objected it and demanded a new pillow case.
Meeting Mark Johnson was very pleasant as he sounded very credible and experienced in more than just obstetrics - despite the scary (for me personally) news that I shall have a planned C-Section this time round.
So, I felt very enthusiastic at first hoping that since it w.b. a planned operation and he's advised on it he would do it himself. But then as I started to research the topic I figured that, unless you have a serious complication, you are utmost likely to be operated by an Intern with Consultant just signing of the papers, i.e. often not even being in the operations theater during the procedure.
I am scared to bits of being cut by some overworked or sick trainee or one for whom it would be his 1st surgery ever. - I've really had enough with my 1st delivery at UCLH.
So, I am now turn b/w taking chances with CW NHS and going to Kensington Wing.
For us £15K is a large amount of money that we're saving to buy a flat but we do have it. Also, my insurance said if the medical reasons are those that they accept as valid they'd cover ~£4k.
So, please help with your experiences on either side (or both!)!!!
Oh, and my insurer said that they only have Keith Duncan (but not Nick Wales or Mark Johnson) registered with them. So, any comments on particular OB would also be great!
Thanks