Hi
Might not be in the right area for this posting so please accept my apologies if I am. I just would be interested to if other people have/are experiencing the same frustrations re: antenatal care. Am currently 16 weeks pregnant and have yet to see a midwife to be 'booked in'. Everytime I call i get told 'there are no midwives, we are too busy,call in 2 weeks if you haven't received an appointment' Lo and behold appointment never arrives!!!
I live in the London Borough of Greenwich and initially things got off to a promising start. I was given an early scan because of issues around dates and my doctor arranged the blood tests at 8 weeks. I was told to arrange the scan directly with the hospital which I did and was told by the doctor that the midwife appointment would follow shortly. When I had the scan, hospital told me that I wasn't allocated a midwife and should follow it up straight away (which is what I've been trying to do since!!!!!)
I am due to go on holiday in a few weeks and would like to see a midwife before I go to check everything ok but can't get an appointment in a drop in clinic because i'm not 'booked' in!!!!! Clearly if it continues, I'll just go back to my GP but this doesn't seem to resolve the issue in the long-term as every question I have put to my GP about the pregnancy/birth has been met with the response "the midwifes will be able to help you with that". And so the vicious circle continues!
Is this the norm ?? Am a bit concerned as by the time the next 2 week waiting period is up, I could potentially be approaching 19weeks and no-one yet has taken family history, blood pressure and I'll have no paperwork, notes etc...Am just really unclear on what I can realistically expect in the way of care and have no idea what my 'birthing' options are and so far, am not greatly inspired that the delivery will be a positive, supportive experience!!!
Any feedback gratefully received!
Kind regards
Rebecca