POSITIVE c-section experiences

[NicMac]

Hello Everyone

I posted a few weeks ago as I am now pregnant with one child (having had twins 4 years ago)and expecting this baby in a week and a half. I had a horrid experience last time, had a caesarean and was incredibly poorly with thrombosis, severe anaemia and a bladder infection. I also didn't see my boys for 5 days as they had breathing probs despite weighing 7lbs each. Anyway, I am going to have another c-section, my pelvis is very small, the baby is apparently huge and the doctor is concerned that the uterus might not stand up to contractions. I am disappointed but I do have faith in the doctor as he really didn't push me into the decision. Anyway, I wondered if anyone could kindly give me some tips on how to make the whole experience more positive, I am fed up of reading negative c-section stories (though know it isn't always the best option). I really adore the doctors and midwives at the hospital who are wonderful and respectful. I was thinking of writing a birth plan even if it is not a 'normal' delivery.

Thanks so much in advance

NicMac

Just in case you see this before c section. Best of luck, it is a wonderful experience, and not at all scary.

Blieve me once you have got dc nothing else matters or is noticable.

Dp likes to lecture me on the theory of relativity ....but he did say that part of it, is that time speeds up when you are enjoying yourself. Well I was in thatre for about 3/4 hour, and it felt like 30 seconds! Still does...

Hello All

Just wanted to let you all know that baby Arthur Finlay was born last Thursday by c-section. It was absolutely fine, I feel great compared to last time and the hospital staff were amazing - they were respectful and made it all a fantastic experience. I was very lucky that I had opted for a scetion at the end as there was a huge knot in the imbilical cord which could have been fatal for Arthur if I had gone for a natural delivery. My husband was with me and I have to say that I am so pleased I had a section. I am a bit sore as the scar is inflammed but overwise I am walking fine and just enjoying family life with a trio of boys. Baby Arthur is just beautiful and was quite large at 8lb1oz.
Good luck to you all and thank you again for all your words of wisdom,
NicMac

BIG congratulations honey!!!! Really pleased for you and great to hear you had a positive experience too. Must be a big relief once you found out about the know too!

Look after yourself and your boys and all the very best for the future xxx

Just wanted to add my congratulations and have a wonderful time with your three boys

Congratulations. Lovely to hear it went so well this time.

well done. Glad it went well for you

Congratulations and glad you had such a positive experience.