- does the epidural hurt? I mean going into sober not after 75h of labour etc. I had a spinal and it didn't really hurt at all despite them needing several attempts.
-how long did it take to go from OP to recovery ward? I'm not sure exactly, 30 mins maybe? I was surprised at how quick it was, and once the baby is out you have that to distract you while they sew you back up etc.
- could your partner cut the cord? DH didn't cut the cord. The issue never came up (they didn't mention it and we didn't ask) so perhaps if we'd asked he would have been allowed.
- did you have to have an intravenous antiobiotic as a prophylaxis? No antibiotics, before or afterwards.
-what sort of stuff did you do to make the first solids toilet trip smile tolerable? Nothing special. I had no problem going to the toilet.
- did you use a belt/band? Was it helpful? I've seen some websites say it's great others saying your muscles should do the work and the belt makes them lazy. No belts or bands. I didn't want anything pressing on or rubbing directly against the wound, so wore high-waisted pants and loose trousers/leggings until it had healed.
-is celexane (sp?) anti coagulant injections given to everyone or those with risk factor? I think they're given to everyone as the risk of clotting is there with all pelvic surgeries. They usually give them to you to take home and give yourself. Tbh administering the clexane myself was a lot easier than I was expecting once I got used to it - I just varied the injection site a little each time.
-how long did it take to recover? Not long at all. I was moving about (carefully!) within 24 hours, and stopped taking paracetamol after a couple of days as I didn't need them. Unexpected twisting was quite sore, so I had to make a conscious effort to keep myself in line all the time, but I was back to normal and fully healed within a few weeks.
-overall was it worse/easier than you thought it might be? Much much easier, although I think I may be towards the 'easy' end of the spectrum. Everyone had 'prepared' me for prolonged recovery and advised I keep taking the painkillers just in case etc., but really I was left wondering what all the fuss was about because I felt fine. (Although, as I say, I was very conscious of how I was moving, wound care to keep it clean, dry and not irritated, and generally how to help myself heal.)