This is such a personal decision, but I hope my experience, albeit years ago, will help.
I was induced for dc1 at 2 weeks overdue with a back to back presentation, which spiralled into an emergency csection with a distressed baby, all was eventually well physically, but it felt like the only thing I got right was the subsequent b/feeding. Later I was scanned and found to have a narrow pelvis.
Dc2 was a week overdue when I was induced. I had an unsympathetic consultant and community midwife who blithely suggested that a vbac would result in a brain damaged baby, but the hospital staff were very supportive and allowed time for me to make my decision. We agreed on an epidural again, in case of the need for a csection, and my waters were broken which started labour effectively. Although dc2 was the right way round, my narrow pelvis meant that she would not arrive on her own, a calm and amazing doctor and midwife suggested a ventouse, which was successful in delivering her.
For me it was the right call, I recovered more quickly, physically and mentally, and am eternally grateful to the medical team for involving me in the decision making process, though at all times I knew the baby's well-being came before my wishes.
Several friends had deliveries at around the same time, some went with vbac, others stayed with csections. Unhelpfully only you can make the final decision, but I think the thing that really helped me was feeling that I was being listened to, and not dismissed as a body on a bed with everyone watching the machines and ignoring me. So even if a csection had been necessary I was part of it, and not a passive object.
Also consider practical things like childcare around your delivery date, and support at home for the first few weeks.
Good luck with your decision, try to think through all the possible options, so when whatever happens, happens, you will have a feeling that that it is a choice you have contributed to, rather than had imposed on you.
