My lovely boy is healthy but I don't understand the circumstances of his birth. I'd appreciate an informed guess if anyone is willing.
His shoulder was stuck and he was delivered using a ventouse. It was tense and slow. Once out, he was floppy and silent. A team worked on him in the corner of the delivery room. They counted 'one two THREE' for three full minutes. I got the impression they were doing chest compressions. At the start of the fourth minute, he began to breathe. Apart from a truly massive bump on his head, he was strong and gave no concerns from then on. We appreciate him all the more because of this experience and have a much deeper sympathy for parents who are not so lucky.
Even though he's fine, I now need to know what happened. From a little bit of reading, I gather that a baby needing oxygen will try to breathe. If they're in the birth canal and therefore unable to breathe, they will then lose consciousness but circulation remains good. Then (if I'm right) the heart slows and, as carbon dioxide builds up, the baby will give some gasps. If they're unable to breathe air at this point, a new phase of oxygen deprivation begins. A short time into this, circulation becomes poor and the heart fails. I've read that this whole process takes twenty minutes and most babies are being resuscitated before reaching the stage of heart failure. Therefore, most babies don't need chest compressions.
Going by that description, it would place my baby pretty far down the line in terms of how long he'd been starved of oxygen.
But it doesn't add up. The results of a test to see how oxygenated his blood was at birth showed a much better result than they had feared. There was a celebratory feeling in the delivery room, which we were too traumatised to enter into at the time. We were told the problems during those three minutes were probably due to 'shock'. I'm wondering now if they meant that our baby's heart had slowed or stopped due to 'shock' rather than heart failure due to prolonged oxygen deprivation?
Does the three minutes of chest compressions mean that my son was born without a heartbeat? Were they likely to have used a defibrillator? I do have a hazy memory of something high pitched. Would the heart have just stopped randomly because he was so squashed and stuck? It sounds mad but I'm a bit vexed about it happening without a good reason.
Thanks to anyone who can shed light. I realise that I could return to the hospital but we're now in a completely different area and it would be a mission. Even though they were utterly lovely, I don't want to go back again.