Hey everyone!
Looking for some experiences from those of you who had a c-section (elective or emergency) then fell pregnant shortly after and managed to have a successful VBAC.
I should note, unsuccessful stories are welcome too as I'd very much like a broad spectrum of things to read to help me finalise my delivery decision.
So, I had an emergency C-Section 10 months ago - my waters burst on their own at 39+2 with no prior contractions or clues that I was remotely close to labour, then nothing happened for almost two days - I ended up being induced due to minimal contractions doing bugger all, but still only got to 2-3cms even after having a pessary and being on the drip for 12hrs.
Baby's head had sunk in to an awkward position and basically got stuck, plus the infection risk was too high since my waters had been broken for so long, so sun roof job it had to be!
I ended up falling pregnant again around 14 weeks after having the caesarean and am now 30 weeks pregnant with baby number two!
I'm about 95% sure I want a VBAC. I'm one of those people that wants to experience a natural birth, but of course, should a c section be needed for any medical reason I will obviously go along with it for the sake of the baby.
The one thing stopping me from getting to 100% certainty is the risk of my scar rupturing. I know the risk is minimal and I've been told that even though I fell pregnant quickly after my first baby, that doesn't mean I'm at higher risk for rupturing or problems. Still, I'm a worrier and can't shake the feeling that I'm going to be one of those mothers that makes up the statistic that are so casually talked through at the VBAC consultant appointments.
I'm also worried that the fact I never dilated properly is going to hinder me again this time around.
With just over 9 weeks to go, I really need to start properly sitting down and thinking about what I want to do, so some stories from people who have been in similar situations would be great!