I had an EMCS after a very difficult and drawn out labour due to DD's heart rate dropping and my lack of progression. It was all a bit chaotic and stressful, but DD is healthy and I have always felt EMCS was the right course of action, so don't have any regrets.
20 months on I'm pregnant with DC2, and told my midwife at booking in I wanted an ELCS. She said that to be referred to a consultant I had to attend the VBAC clinic and discuss it there.
I had the appointment, said that I still very much wanted a c section, and asked to be referred to a consultant. They apparently won't refer me until 36 weeks when I have to attend the VBAC clinic once again, and only then will they refer me to a consultant.
I am really, really unhappy with this, I have an appointment with my midwife next week and want to be referred sooner. My nightmare scenario is my waters going at say 36 weeks before I've seen a consultant, and the on duty consultant saying no to an ELCS. I really want it agreed ahead of time so I can be confident. I'm terrified I'm going to be forced into a VBAC that I don't want.
Do I have any rights in this situation?