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Overdue on DS2 - feel like I can't go into labour "on my own"...

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specialmagiclady · 24/03/2007 15:10

Just a bit of a rant, really. Maybe I just need a good talking to!

DS1 was induced at 41+5 and had a generally good, quick labour using only G&A at the end.

To try and naturally induce I tried everything from reflexology/homoeopathy/acupuncture to curries, sex and pineapples by the ton. In the end it was only the prostaglandin pessary that got me going! None of those things produced anything remotely like results - although my cervix was effaced for at least 2 weeks before I was induced.

Now, because my cycle had shortened from 28/29 days to 24 days between pregnancies, I thought this one would be shorter. Obviously not significantly! So I already feel about 2 weeks overdue, psychologically!

Since nothing really worked last time I haven't felt the need to do all the same natural induction techniques this time (plus I'm aware it's still relatively early doors) But I've had 2 really good sessions of acupuncture which both felt like they really did something - some BH and I think baby dropped although MW will check tomorrow. But now things have calmed right down and I just feel "normal" again - like I'm NEVER GOING TO HAVE THIS BABY!

MW coming to my house tomorrow to possibly do a sweep, booked in on Tuesday for the hospital appointment where they try and book you to induction (which I don't want again really as am planning HB).

I'm feeling really torn between wanting to be patient and let nature take its course and the feeling that my body just doesn't know how to start going into labour so it needs all the help it can get.

Plus I'm just feeling REALLY impatient and looking down the barrel of being pregnant for the rest of my life!

Help! Should I ask for the sweep? Would rather have it at home than in hospital... but is it really necessary???

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MarsLady · 24/03/2007 15:18

You won't be pregnant forever my love! Patience... I know I know a bit of a bugger.... but your baby will come. Not long now.

wildwoman · 24/03/2007 15:22

How overdue are you?

Doulaklaw · 24/03/2007 16:06

Remember you're not overdue till 42+ weeks so relax, chill and enjoy the twilight of your pg. Don't be in a hurry to wish it all away, then you'll suddenly find you're in labour before you know it.

Many ladies carry their babies for longer than the 'average' of 40 weeks. Are you average? Thought not!

It is very possible that you naturally cook babies for 42 weeks or more. And you do no thave to accept 'offers' of induction. I refused the offers I was given, except for sweeps. Now I wouldn't even botther with them! Trust your instincts and IF you go past 42wks you can have Expectant Management, where they monitor you daily for any signs of deterioration and then take action IF it is required.

I have a 24 day cycle and my VBAC was 42+1 scan date or 40+6 lmp date. Scans are notoriously inaccurate as well!

Keep posting for moral support whilst you're waiting for that special day.

lulumama · 24/03/2007 18:08

oooohh.....you've got the 'i'll be pregnant for ever ' blues!! usually kicks in not long before labour starts!!

have a lovely relaxing bath, have some fun with your DH, and wait !

baby will be coming, sweep might hurry things along, it might not,,hang on in there !

specialmagiclady · 24/03/2007 19:08

Thanks ladies. My poor dh had to put up with me SOBBING in the park this afternoon while DS1 looked on bemused from the sandpit.

Birth pool is reheating so not too bothered if don't go into labour this very minute, but looking forward to the sweep - or at least an internal to see how my cervix is doing. Ripe? Unripe? who knows.

I'm such a control freak it's really galling not to be able to do stuff to schedule isn't it?

Repeat after me "I'm an Aga, not a microwave. Slow cooking makes babies juicier!"

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LaidbackinEngland · 24/03/2007 19:59

Specialmagiclady... I am 42 weeks tomorrow and have homebirth booked. Sending you 'baby vibes' and hope things happen for you soon.

specialmagiclady · 24/03/2007 22:07

Twiddle twiddle let's get working on those boobies, girl!

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specialmagiclady · 25/03/2007 17:55

Feeling much better today. Had a sweep from MW at home today, she said it's looking (feeling?) positive but unlikely to kick off in next 24/48 hours - which is great in a way because I can just relax a bit.

She touched my baby's head - HOW EXCITING! There's really a baby in there!

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