This is going to sound so silly because I already have a dd but how do you really know when you're in labour? I had no contractions with my dd until just before she came out (or I didn't feel them at least). I went to hospital for another reason and they told me I was in labour. I've felt nauseous, have pressure in my pelvis, I'm extra tired, have backache and can't stop weeing. What do you think? Am I just hoping that I am and inventing symptoms ha. I just don't want to leave it too late as once my contractions started with dd and they broke my waters she was out in minutes. Don't fancy giving birth at home alone