Hi folks , a belated update for you, been busy having a baby! First things first, i never had any IVABS, yay! Neither did baby, we didn't need them. Brief birth story for you - After the ROM on Thursday night I posted about, I was still not in active labour by Saturday lunchtime but had been having irregular contractions ever since, but not getting any regular pattern or length. I agreed to attend the hospital for monitoring on the Saturday lunchtime as I felt the lack of progress was becoming a problem in itself, plus I was pretty fed up by then, no sleep for 2 days by then due to the pain.
All was ok on the monitoring initally, they still wanted to admit me for IVABS but I was still happy to decline them, no clinical indications of infection etc. However the contractions started getting much worse and the HB was starting to drop - this worsened quite a bit and I relunctantly agreed to be admitted for the delivery...they wanted to augment things with synto.
I REALLY hated the idea and discussed (ie asked for!) a CS instead as I strongly felt it was going to end with a CS anyway, because if baby was going to come naturally there would have been progress, and because if the baby wasn't tolerating these bizarre erratic contractions, it would not tolerate strong ones from the synto. The Registrar refused, but promised that if the baby wasn't tolerating the synto, they would stop it right away and do a CS.To cut a long gory story short, I asked for an epidural before the synto was started, the epidural failed and the hb started to plummet big time and it was like an episode of ER- i was rushed to theatre for a (crash) section under GA. They never started the synto because things worsened before they got chance.
Turned out that baby was a brow presentation and had cord around the neck, I was right to be worried that synto wasn't going to help! In my drug induced stupor I told the Registrar 'i told you so' in recovery, he later apologised to DH...to say it was an upsetting experience is a gross understatement, it was hideous.
BUT... I now have a beautiful daughter born on Mothers Days at 3.16am, 6lb 4.5oz. Apgars were 7 and 10, scbu bed was cancelled, and we both made an uneventful recovery as they say. I am still glad I turned down the interventions I did, and no regrets that I tried for a homebirth, I don't feel I failed because it would have been impossible to have a vaginal delivery in the circumstances.
Was really good to come on here for support during the early stages too - only sorry I couldn't come back with a cheery tale about giving birth in my pool with no analgesia , lol.