Yes, as Maria says, waves madly, hi Maria, it is your birth and you don't have to ask permission, they have to ask for yours actually!
I can't believe I went into my VBAC knowing as little as I did but I did and ended up with CFM and forceps! I look at my birth notes, study the trace and I am 1000% sure that without the diamorphine I would have been able to stand up for myself and baby's trace wouldn't have been so poor. I believe I was rushed to theatre as a possible UR, covering their backs, for unecessary forceps because I was too drowsy. I did not sign a consent form, in actual fact. And baby's trace was poor for 10 mins and that was just because of poor connection, I think! Her APGAR scores were 9/1 and 9/5 so I can't beleive that there was a true problem. They relied far too heavily on the CFM, rather than treating me as an individual.
Gosh, have I admitted that out loud?
I know of a great place where you can get more support and info for VBAC but I can't post it here. klaw @ macmail. com and I'll tell you, if you want.
Also the 6 hour time limit is total b@ll@cks! We are not machines that do everythign to a set protocol on a conveyor belt. We are individual human beings with feelings.
Next time, as I keep saying, I'm having a HWBAC with a very good HWBAC friend as my Doula. We can do this, we just need to be afforded the dignity, courtesy and respect to do so.
Should there be any kind of valid medical reason for intervention, then of course we will gratefully accept the benefit of life saving procedures that we are fortunate to have. But do not treat us like a Rupture waiting to happen!
Sorry that was a bit of a rant, wasn't it?
Silent Knife is a good book to read.