Hello ladies, I'm sorry, I know this discussion has been talked about over and over, but just wondering if there's anyone there who has had a similar experience to my first birth...
Induced at 40+7 due to baby measuring big for dates on a Saturday morning, with the pessaries. First pessary did nothing, so 2nd 24 hours later, by 8pm Sunday evening had got to 2cm and they agreed to break my waters. But not until Monday morning!
Monday morning at 7am waters broken, drip inserted. Contractions started properly at about 11am. Epidural at about 2pm.
Got to 7cm, 4 hours later still at 7cm and baby in distress, heartrate dipping with each contraction, fetal blood tests showed decreased oxygen. "Urgent" C Section at 4am Tuesday morning.
DS weighed 9lbs 13 and had an enormous head! I forget which percentile, and am going to check before my VBAC clinic appointment at 21 weeks.
I am almost 16 weeks now, and due to see specialist midwife to discuss my birth options at 21 weeks.
I have no idea whether I want a VBAC or ELCS! I am continually swinging between the two, and when I think I've made a decision I read something and change my mind back!
I think I would like growth scans to check this baby isn't getting too big, and would kind of like to try giving birth naturally. However, continual fetal monitoring puts me off, as I know I'll want to be able to move about if I don't have an epidural. Then if I have an epidural (as I suspect I will as I'm a wimp and got one fairly early on last time) I worry that as I'll be stuck in bed then, labour will stall and I'll be right back where I was last time with EMCS...
So should I just get myself booked in for an ELCS at 39+ weeks and have a far calmer birth experience. DS will be 5, so it's not like I have a toddler to run after and DH will be very supportive I'm sure. I recovered quickly from my last CS, was showering within 12 hours and home just about 36 hours after the op.
But then I think maybe I should give myself a little longer and see if they would agree to let me go to 41 weeks before scheduling a section? With the proviso that we keep an eye on baby's size and if measuring big again, I go in for ELCS earlier.
I already know what I don't want: no induction, no forceps, ideally no continual monitoring, but don't know how likely that will be...possibly timing stages of labour so that if I do end up having an EMCS I won't be as exhausted as last time..
Just wondering if any of you ladies had a EMCS under similar circumstances and how your second/subsequent births went?