Hi Sazzy
I had this with DD1. I saw the consultant and her view was that, in my case, the baby was better in than out. She said that the risk of abruption, whilst there, was small. She had only had one person abrupt on her in 15 years. The risk of cord prolapse was greater if the head wasn't engaged (i wasn't either) but again she felt that she would rather let the baby go to term and then see rather than induce early. My cervix wasn't favourable and she had 2 unsuccessful attempts at sweeping, so once I went to 41 +10 I was induced.
Your situation may well be very different to mine, but I agree that the outcome is far more important than the journey, IYSWIM. My induction was not the high spot of my pregnancy but it was OK and I took lots of drugs to help me cope. I can't remember if you are UCH or WHittington but you are likely to have access to an anaesthetist at all times in either of those places, and if you need an epidural you can have one.
I am sure someone like Mears would be able to tell you for definite but my consultant said that the amount of monitoring etc you need would depend on how your body took to the induction. I wasn't ready and so I had 2 pessaries and then a drup - once the drip was in I had to be continuously monitored, but if the pessary had got things going, I could have just had intermittent monitoring with a doppler and kept mobile. Several friends have just had a smiff od the pessary and been underway so you might be lucky.
The other thing to bear in mind if you are worried about prolapse is that if your waters go you need to get to hospital asap (by 999 if necessary) and if you thnk cord has prolapsed get on your hands and knees with your bum in the air whilst waiting for the ambulance to arrive. THis will take the pressure off the cord.
I am sorry not to be able to offer you any more reassurance, but you know from the march thread that I have signed up for DB2 even after my first labour so it can't have been that bad!!
HTH