SofiaAmes....beacuse there has to be some norm by whihc to define labour....regualr contractiosn 5 - 3 mintues apart usually indicate established labour...but not always, as you say
my VBAC labour was similar, in that on paper my labour was 3 hours 15 minutes, but that did not take into account the 15 hours of contractions, that like you, were painful and regular!
however, that is absolutely no excuse for yuor shoddy treatmnet..you should, IMHO , have either been sent home to labour at home, or rest comfortbaly, or admited to the ante natal ward for monitoring. being sutck in a room ,unattended is disgracfeful and inexcusbale.
and says more about the shortage of midwives .
TBH, i am the first person to stand up and say each woman needs to be able to be suported to labour how she needs to, and for the textbook version of labour to be thrown out, as it puts a burden on women that often cannot be fulfilled......
i do not like the idea of women labouring under a time limit, that is imposed regardless of how her individual labour is progressing, and the blanket 'ban' on home birth and water birth for VBAC in some trusts...but until there is a radical shift in obstetric care and thinking, it will remain in place, and the labouring woman has to fight for her rights to be able to labour how she needs to.
i think you and i are both in favour of the same thing.