Apologies in advance if this all comes across as being very self indulgent.
After discovering on Wednesday (36 +2) that baby is breech I have been doing lots of reading about turning it. Lots of people on here and a midwife at the birth centre have recommended the moxa sticks I tried them last night and baby is still in position (although I am not so naive to expect an overnight miracle). There was a fair amount of wiggling.
So I now have several questions.
- Last night I did it in the bathroom with little ventilation and now my house really smells. Should I have opened a window or is the inhalation of the smoke part of it all?
- Should I have consulted someone professionally, instead of just buying them? I followed the instructions on here which was originally posted by lulumama? thanks your posts always have lots of great advice.
There is a clinic just up the road from my house (very bohemian for our area so I could give them a ring)
- Should I actually be able to feel the heat? The sticks were very close but I didn't feel any intense heat.
- How often should I repeat it? Every day, every other day?? ? I'm not sure DH's sensitive nose, or mine for that matter, can take lots of it. Thank goodness we have sold the house, God knows what prospective buyers would have thought.
- It says you should do it at bed time and / or lie down afterwards, should this be on my left side??
I might have more to add later. Today will mostly be spent
Walking elephant style round the house.
Putting frozen food on the top of my bump
Pointing torches / music at strategic points of my body and willing baby to turn.
I know baby may turn of its own accord but I'm almost sure it has been in this position for at least 4 weeks already of not more.
Interestingly enough I have read that it could be psychological factors which are preventing baby from being in position and I am now wondering if this could be the case with me. My mum had lots of problems which have maybe prayed on my mind more than I thought. (and I aplogise to MN regular posters who know me for going into it again. I'm sure you are all fed up of me talking about it all. DH even had a go at me the other week.) Even though my pregnancy has been great, no problems and I have been really well. She lost a baby at 30 weeks and my older brother was also born at this time and has SLD, CP and Epilepsy. I've always said I would be happy with a section if it meant baby got out safely. I'm also quite small 4"ll and I sit cross legged a lot (mainly because on lots of chairs my feet don?t go flat on the floor) and wonder if this hasn?t given baby enough room to move into position in the last week or so..
Sorry a bit philosophical there.
I know I should probably stop harping on about it as it probably just will make things worse. I am booked in for an ECV next week. But I am worried about getting upset and stressing everyone out, including baby. I've not managed to talk to any professionals in the last week without crying.
Maybe I just need a good slap round the chops and you all to tell me to pull myself together.