I think we all ought to be able to choose how we wish to be cared for in relation to every aspect of our care in the NHS.
I wanted caseloading care with my pregnancies, but it wasn't available to me because I didn't fit the criteria in my trust which qualifies you for caseloading care.
I also wanted my ds to be assessed for ASD as soon as possible - we knew he had autism from the age of two, but he wasn't diagnosed until he was 7 because it took that long to be referred and assessed.
Now he is diagnosed he needs help managing his emotions and we need help with strategies for parenting him. My ds2 needs a CAMHS referral for anxiety - he meets the threshold for assessment but because he isn't suicidal or self harming he will have to wait a long, long time for assessment and treatment.
My neice is about to start her one cycle of IVF that our trust will pay for. She has been trying for a baby for four years, and has been told that she should get three cycles but that the trust is only offering one for financial reasons.
NHS tight-fistedness results in very profound challenges for all of us in many areas of our lives.
In my case with my birth choices I ended up remortgaging the house and using the money to pay a private midwife. I know many people couldn't do that and wouldn't want to. It's just that I see the issue of c/s in relation to all other birth choices - the choice to have case-loading care/a homebirth/water birth/continuity of care/elcs. They are all important to women. It's just hard to know how they should prioritise spending if they are given a fixed budget.