Yes you would have done, Snossidge - a very sad story indeed. I think it was a partial placental abruption, iirc.
I needed an ECV if I wanted a VB, because DS2 was transverse oblique unstable lie (basically he went from one diagonal to the other, head up under my ribs, in the swimming pool that I had due to polyhydramnios). BUT (and I would only have agreed to it under these circs) it was done the same day that DS2 was born. I would not under any circs have agreed to it several days/weeks prior to due date/birth, because of the MNer's experience, and when I mentioned that to someone I knew, she said a friend of hers had had the same traumatic outcome :(
So - I was induced (to be honest, if I'd gone into spontaneous labour and my water had broken I'd have needed an emCS) and after the cervidil to "ripen" my cervix, the next thing they did was the ECV - bloody hurt! - and then I had the syntocinon drip to start contractions to push his head onto my cervix. He was also held in place with rolled towels. It was so much fun (not).
Then they broke my waters, which speeded everything up - and he was born about 3h later.
But at all times there was a theatre standing by in case anything went awry, and they needed to do an emCS.
Not many OBGYNS would have done what mine did, I don't think - a friend in Sydney had a breech presentation (footling breech) and wasn't really given the option, she needed a CS. My OBGYN would have tried to birth the baby in the breech position, because he was experienced in doing that - the OBGYN my friend had wasn't so wouldn't take the risk.
My advice to you, OP, is to seek other options - but I wouldn't agree to the ECV so far ahead of time.