I'm 39+6 today, but based on my previous pregnancy, may still have a way to go (41+4 for DD1!)
At 38 weeks, my bump (findal height) was small for dates so I was referred for a growth scan. In my trust, they use the customised GROW chart to predict the baby's expected weight at various stages. Here's where it gets complicated... I transferred here at 20 weeks. In my previous trust, they don't use this chart. The chart is based on parameters such as previous babies' birth weights, mother's weight, mother's ethnic group etc. The mothner's weight has quite a large weighting in determining the curve. The problem is. I was never weighed at booking in. I know this sounds crazy, but the first midwife I ever saw was a bit dippy and one of the things she overlooked was weighing me - she just gave me the notes to fill in and as I never weigh myself, I just guessed my weight at around 52 kg. When I was weighed at 24 weeks, I weighed 54... so possible I overestimated.
The problem is that now the baby looks SGA, as they are just below the 10th centile line on this chart... which was generated on the basis of (likely) incorrect information. At 38+4 according to the growth scan, she was 6 lbs 8 oz and just a hair's breadth below the 10th centile line, which interestingly, comes out at DD1s birth weight, so only a smidgen smaller than her sister at the same age - she was 7lbs 3oz at birth.
So now, I'm classified as high risk, recommended induction and continuous CTG in labour and my planned homebirth is recommended against. I declined all the interventions because there are no other signs that the baby is at risk (great CTGs, placenta fine, Doppler of umbilical artery fine) but agreed to daily CTG and another growth scan next week. I've had the obstetrician come and shout at me (yes, really) that I was taking unnecessary risks of my baby dying or being disabled. I happen to think that induction carries it own risks and they outweigh the benefits in my case. The consultant got really annoyed at that and snapped "what exactly are you worried about??!"
My confidence is really shaken now and I keep crying all the way to the hospital, where I have to go every day now, have more CTG, be told that I should be induced and that I am going against medical advice and have the latter phrase written all over my notes. They are making me feel like a terrible irresponsible person all because of this chart. I don't know what to do now. I still want to have my home birth, but I feel like I'm doing something wrong, but I know when I go into labour, I'll be too terrified to go into hospital because things escalated into panic mode so quickly on the day I went in for the scan. I can stand my ground normally, but I'm worried I'll be too vulnerable in labour to resist all the interventions or consider all the risks/benefits objectively.
I'm sorry this is so long. If anyone has read and has any experience or advice for me, I would love to hear from you. I just woke up and I'm feeling crap already about going ot hospital again today 