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Childbirth

Share experiences and get support around labour, birth and recovery.

Birth injury - angry and considering complaint to GMC

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Benjysmammy · 19/10/2015 19:15

I recently delivered at a major London hospital. Induction, long labour, baby's heart rate dipped, wound up in theatre for forceps delivery. I'm grateful that I was delivered of a healthy baby. However the episiotomy performed started at the three o'clock position, rather than the six o'clock position (if that makes sense) and the cut sheared through my right labia, stopping just short of severing it completely and then turned out away from the vaginal opening at the six o'clock position. This didn't become obvious until days after delivery when the hematoma that had formed under the stitches caused them to burst and the labia detached and was left hanging off by a thread of skin. I have just undergone revision surgery to put it all back together and am far from thrilled with the results though I was warned that they might just have to cut it off rather than reattach it so I suppose I should be grateful. I get that childbirth is not for the fainthearted and I didn't expect to come through it completely unscathed but I am angry and do not believe that this is normal - for a start the internet (which knows everything) seems to say nothing of having your labia detached during childbirth. I would like the doctor to stop offering what I feel are arse covering platitudes and admit that she made a simple mistake. She said in my follow up meeting that 'no one has complained about me before' and 'this is how I perform all episiotomies'. I'd like a sanity check, am I overreacting in making a complaint to the GMC - I'm not into bashing the medical profession for no reason. I doubt very much it is her usual practice but in that case I'd like her to admit that and just say sorry - I was rushing to get your baby out - or I just plain started the cut too high, don't know why but oops I'll try not to do that to anyone else - or if she really does do this routinely then to be retrained?

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OhMakeMeOver · 27/10/2015 15:34

In that case... definitely complain! If you're not happy or satisfied with the response, take it to the ombudsman.
I see no benefit to the way it was done - you need to know why she did it like that, and what benefit she thinks it would have to the women she is doing it to! I fail to see why she thinks doing that would make "room" for delivery, because it just doesn't, it just causes more complications for her for repair and complications for the woman during recovery!

If she made a mistake she needs to admit to it and stop being so defensive. If she has done something wrong, she could possibly be one step closer to losing her job. But if everyone you've seen doesn't agree with her then she would probably be put on to courses to re-train. And it sounds like you could be entitled to compensation.

Here's the address and complaint procedure... I know there is another way to tke it further but can't remember the name...
www.nhs.uk/choiceintheNHS/Rightsandpledges/complaints/Pages/NHScomplaints.aspx

OhMakeMeOver · 27/10/2015 15:38

If she was a midwife or nurse you can search the Nursing and Midwifery Council Register to see her experience etc.

This one... Maybe consider this too?
www.nhs.uk/NHSEngland/thenhs/healthregulators/Pages/carequalitycommission.aspx

greypinkandpurple · 29/10/2015 07:49

I would personally don't expect anything from gmc
My friend has been damaged beyond repair in labour
Damaged for life
She would never be able to have any sort of intimacy ever again and surprise surprise gmc could not see any foult of the lovely " hospital " team who damaged my friend for life

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