I'm feeling a bit confused about my birth options (if I actually have an option) and would really appreciate some advice.
Am currently 37 weeks pregnant with DC2. DC1 was born 2.5 years ago by emcs at 27 weeks due to sudden placental insufficiency (luckill all fine now). I was kind of expecting that I'd need to have another c-section due to the circumstances of my dc's birth, but after my hospital requested my old notes, I was told on several occasions throughout my pregnancy that I could try for a vbac if I wanted, and I was keen to do this.
Last week I saw a different consultant at 36 weeks who looked through my notes and said that I had a t-shaped incision on my uterus and so would not be a good candidate for a vbac, and was I happy to book am elcs for 39 weeks. I agreed to this as it was recommended by the consultant and because I was kind of in shock to only find out this information at this late stage.
Has anyone experienced anything similar? I really wanted to avoid another c-section if possible, but if it's safer then it's obviously the right thing to do. I've been trying to do a bit of my own research and I can find much about more unusual scars and the likelihood of rupture.
Also I really want to have one more dc after this one and I'm worried that I won't be about to if I have too much scar tissue etc. I just want to make sure I have all the relevant information I can and I don't know anyone irl who has experienced anything similar. Also, in a more selfish way, I feel sad that I won't be able to experience a vb.
Thanks