Hi
I can relate to your experiences at St. Peters I have 4 dd's all there couldn't have home births (never went into labour even after 16 days over!!) they were born in
Jan 97, June 2002, Aug, 2003, Aug 2005.
Bad news - the Joan booker pre & post ward is still quite crap & understaffed (I did a midnight runner after the 2nd dd even though she wasn't feeding - said I would leave her behind if need be but I needed some quiet & darkness to SLEEP!)
Good news - The Labour ward is really good and has improved loads in recent years. They have a 4 bedded unit up there if you are going to have section, be induced (with not a number 1) are in early labour and NEED some pain relief etc. They have 2 home from home rooms if you don't need any medical intervention - think induction meant I didn't qualify for those though.
My Advice: Ask for the birth reflections service lovely midwife called Zara does it now they go through your old notes and you can talk through the experience and you can discuss what can be done differently next time etc.
Even more important! Write on your notes my dp/dh is a crap birthing partner but I have no-one else to ask I really want the midwives to support me. I wrote this because it is the truth and my last birth was really fantastic the midwives were much more involved, advised me without being bossy and accepted that dp was just there to carry the bags and becuase I wanted him there. I think sometimes they feel like they don't want to intrude otherwise.
More Advice. Try and relax and accept that you need to be there - I think it was that acceptance that I would go overdue, wouldn't be able to have a home birth etc that made the last one better too.
Take arnica as soon as you going into to labour - it's fantastic stuff!
Assuming your baby is ok and you don't want to stay you can be dischared after 6 hours and tell them this so they can arrange for the paedeatric checks etc, I refused to go on the joan booker ward and they kept me on the labout ward as long as possible etc.
You can refuse a midwife if you don't like them/their style/manner. I had it written on my notes that I refused to have x - bad experience with 2nd birth. I also wrote loads of other stuff down - no blood sugar testing on baby (I have big babies so they do it automatically), no automatic catheter if I have an epidural etc etc etc.
I could go on forever let me know if you want some for opinions etc!
So in short they are better now absolutely definately although I would still escape asap rather than stay on the Joan booker ward!