This is a hypothetical question as I'm not pregnant or ttc but I get nightmares about this so I thought it would help to work this through in my mind if that makes sense. I'm not planning on having anymore babies but I've had unplanned pregnancies before so despite lots of contraception there is that worry in the back of my mind that it might happen anyway.
I have Ehlers Danlos Syndrome which means my waters tend to break early (35 weeks the last 2 times). After 3 normal, term births DS4 was born by C-section due to unstable lie after my waters broke. I tried to vbac with DS5 but I ended up with a ruptured womb (more common with ehlers danlos syndrome apparently but I didn't know that then) a crash c-section and we both had sepsis. DS5 was very poorly at birth and was very close to needing a ventilator. I was in HDU for 3 days, DS5 was in NICU for 5 days.
With DS3 my induction for prolonged rupture of membranes was delayed because labour ward was busy, which worked out well for me because I went into labour naturally while I was waiting. With DS4 my C-section was delayed because the operating theatre was busy. Both times I ended up with my waters broken for more than 48 hours. With DS5 I was offered induction twice but warned that it would be a long wait and if my baby needed scbu he would be transferred to another hospital 90 minutes drive away as the scbu at my local hospital was full. My consultant recommended not being induced to maximise chance of vbac so I had twice weekly monitoring and antibiotics for 9 days until I got an infection.
If I got pregnant again I think the safest thing for me and baby would be an ELCS at 34 weeks. I've been told that a VBA2C is out of the question because of my previous rupture but I know they don't normally do elcs that early. I know this would mean the baby would be in scbu/nicu with a feeding tube and maybe CPAP as well for 4-6 weeks or so but he would probably be a lot better off than DS5 was. And with a planned cs they will be expecting him and there will be more likely to have a cot ready in our local neonatal unit. I know it would be a longer stay in neonatal but it would be considerably calmer and without the trauma that me and DS5 experienced.
I'm worried that it will be recommended that I have an elcs at 39 weeks, but my waters will break at 35 again and I will end up waiting for more than 48 hours, risking infection and my baby will end up in a different hospital. Under these circumstances would I be allowed to have an elcs at 34 weeks.