Pruni......reassurance and just listening is good..
suggest she goes through her birth notes with someone.....
agree with everything beaks said...that's good advice....
if she is still terrified...has she had any counselling...she might have PTSD..which can occur after a terrifying birth experience, especially if she lost a lot of blood and maybe feared the worst
there is a birth trauma association she could talk to...i'll try and find the link and sheila kitzinger has also set up a birth crisis helpline....will also try and find the link for that....
NAB3- post partum hemorrhage...unexpected blood loss after birth, think more than 500 ml is classed as PPH. Some blood loss is normal with every delivery..but large & unexpected loss is not.
you are a kind and considerate friend ....