Newmumtoo, I think the same. Sometimes I feel improvements then I don't most the time. I've had three big babies close in age, 5cm gap then 7-8cm gap and I'm very slim.. My belly button is completely deformed into a hernia and my intestines bulge.. What it looks like anyway and physio confirmed this...
I do small exercises but I don't feel a lot of control in the main problem area.
Physio said that it does take a while for the pregnancy relaxen hormone to leave your body and stays even longer when Breastfeeding.. Which I still am doing at ten months pp.
My body has had non stop pregnancy and Breastfeeding hormone in for 4.5yrs! So I think it may take me a while...
I just want the control back, not get digestion problems where my muscles don't hold me in. Not get back ache and just looks horrid to me. I'm proud of what I've achieved but my tummy is a wreck 