i am the High blood Presure queen!!! i've had high BP throghtour all three babes... and have hypertension when not preg so am on meds usually...
for my first pregananncy (when tehy first detected) they monitored me to the hilt as tehy were scared that it would turn into pre eclampsia... so had 24 hour bp monitor... admitted a couple of times... had higher dose of meds (methodopya and nifedipine) in to see the Day Assessment Unit for CTG's and Urine and BP checks... plus under consultant care...
being first preganancy i went along and was given an epidural during labour for the reasons you have been given.. the plus side to this was that i was first on the 'epidural queue' due to their worries over the BP... epidural was given quite early on so relatiovely pain free.. although i think it made my labout a lot longer... plsu epidural wasn't as effective as it should have been... and they kept topping me up so this resulted me going completely numb and i didn't even know whether i was pushing or not... ended up with Ventouse delivery...
2nd preganancy as they had seen me nefore they were a little more relaxed although i was still under consultant care and popped into Blood Pressure clinic once a month and then fortnightly... however ds was a super fast 45 min birth.. waters broke at home... too late to get to hospital... dh delivered in hallway!!! with paramedics arriving after the birth!!! so there was obviously no epidural there!!!...
3rd preganancy (born on tuesday night!!!) BP behaved beautifully (once a month in BP clinic) until about 35 weeks... where it started to raise.. so once again back into fortnight visits - turning into wekly vistis to DAU.. BP/Urine/CTG/Bloods...
was expecting to be montored like 1st birth, with BP cuff/ catheter/epidural etc... BUT they didn't even ask if i wanted an epidural (whihc i was quite pleased about!) and within an hour of going into full blown contractions dd2 was born...
so the main gist if this... ?? if it's your first i expect them to be more inclined to offer you an epidural quite quickly like they did for as they like to err on the side of caution...
i think the best thing i would say is like you've already said... keep an open mind... don't have too many goals for childbirth (except a healthy baby at the end!) as if you do set yourself goals if it doesn't happen you get dissapointed...
sorry to be waffling on so much... DD1 at school, dd2 baby asleep, ds1 playing with granny post birth euphoria!!!! [GRIN]