hi kpr
I'm 39 weeks preg with my first and due to give birth in Antwerp..
I would personally refuse the IV and just eat and drink when they're not looking. It's a very very long, arduous physical effort, and as I see it a bit of energy is essential. I'm not talking about eating a full meal in labour, just about isotonic/energy drinks and juice, plus things like chocolate, boiled sweets to suck on, that kind of thing.
My understanding is that the reason for not eating is for the very unlikely case you would need a general anaesthetic (as most CS are done with a spinal nowadays anyway this is unlikely to occur), and even if you've eaten you can still have a general anaesthetic (car accident victims etc).
I think it's very important to brief your birth partner/husband on what you do and don't want, so they can advocate for you. After all, the hospital is only making recommendations. They have no right to do anything to you (e.g. insert an IV, which instantly makes you less mobile), or to physically stop you eating or drinking. They can only pressure you to fit in with their protocols.
It sounds like a very medicalised hospital, and I would seriously ask yourself whether it's too much for you personally. A lot depends on who your obstetrician is as well I suppose. I'm choosing Belgium because of the great aftercare, but am very aware that I'll need to be ready to refuse procedures and go my own way to a certain extent.
My four main things for labour are: (don't know if useful for you but just a reflection of trying to remind them of my basic rights!)
- I will eat and drink as I see fit (better not to say this directly to the medical staff, but my husband has been briefed). The Antwerp hospital said 'as much clear fluid as you want', e.g. juice is OK. But if I want a bit of chocolate, no one has the right to stop me having it!
- I will give birth in an active position such as hands and knees, sitting, or perhaps lying on my side, but not lying on my back or in stirrups (much harder to push, higher risk of tears). This applies even if I had the epidural
- If I am continuously monitored because I had the epidural, I would still like to remain as upright as possible (e.g. kneeling, sitting)
- VERY IMPORTANT, I do not want an episiotomy unless it is strictly necessary (where they cut you). Apparently French and some Belgian doctors are notorious for this, they just do it as routine, and it is apparently very damaging and heals worse than most tears.
Wish you the best of luck and can only urge you to be as informe d as possible, get your obstetrician on your side and consider another hospital if they are really pushy about these issues...