Hello, I'm in the early weeks of pregnancy and starting to reflect on my previous labour with my first.
With my first I managed to get myself into a bit of a state and I was very anaemic and B12 deficient when going into labour.
What's the likelihood of being B12 deficient this time? Is there a particular blood test I would need to make sure I have? The midwives have so many mums to be to look after I want to make sure I am equipped with information.
If I had a 10lb baby first time round, will it be the same? Can I ask for a growth scan, Or do they only do this when you measure big? Frankly, I was a giant and I don't know why they didn't.
Lastly I had a PPH, which really was the last thing I needed. Crappy days. What's the odds on having another PPH if you have had one before. If they know I had one, is there anything they can do?
Lastly again, what about an ELCs. I know it's not the easy way out but I had an infected episiotomy afterwards and thrombosed haemorrhoids. Not a happy place. Can you have one of those with a history of PPH?
Of course I will ask my midwife all these questions when my booking in appointment comes (all going well), but I wanted to hear the experiences from real people, and possibly some people in the know, so that I am we'll armed with info.
Thank you