Just got back from visit to consultant regarding induction planning and could really use some advice.
I'm 40+10 according to hospital scan dates, but only 40+3 according to my ovulation date which I am quite sure about as I was using CB Fertility Monitor + Opk + temperature charting. (it was a VERY planned pregnancy)
This is my 2nd child. DD was born at 40+16 by EMCS after failure to progress at 6cm following 3 days of attempted induction (Gel, ARM, Drip). She was 9 lb 10 oz. Late babies run in our family - on average born 10 days after due date.
Consultant advises that waiting to induce won't increase my chances of a successful VBAC, it will only decrease. However he agrees that spontaneous labour (which we cannot predict will happen anytime soon) would give the best chance.
He did a sweep today and says cervix is "very favourable" - 3cm dilated, soft but not yet thin enough. He has booked me in for a scan & monitoring for Friday at which point I could decide to be induced that same day or delay until next week.
I can't decide what to do… a part of me is saying hold out for spontaneous labour as long as possible (best chances for VBAC, less painful labour) and the other part of me is saying I'm being stupid for not inducing before Monday (risk to baby).
My main motivation for avoiding a CS is my 3 yr old toddler at home who is an absolute terror at the moment, and I cannot see myself being able to look after her if I cannot lift her etc. Otherwise I wouldn't mind a CS so much as I had a super quick and easy recovery last time.
The other factor on my mind is that I'm not convinced baby is in the best possible position. He is certainly head down but possibly partially back to back. I might be making this too hard on myself….
Experiences / thoughts appreciated!