Thought I'd do an update, by way of support/information on this thread as I gave birth to a beautiful baby boy on Wednesday
. As I posted previously, I'd had a 2.5L PPH following the birth of DD, due to atonic uterus and a third degree tear.
I hesitated before writing this as don't want to scare anyone, but I did have another big PPH this time, but the experience was completely different this time and for me is a positive birth story, which I hope will bring some hope to you other lovely ladies.
I had a birth plan for a managed third stage, which meant that they put a cannula in before I started pushing and had the syntocin drip on stand by. This was all done quite rapidly when I arrived at hospital as I had a very fast labour and it was all in place in time for the second stage. We had managed to tell the midwife briefly what had happened last time and that it was quite traumatic. Apart from the cannula being in, I had a completely intervention free labour and delivery.
They realised pretty quickly that I had a retained placenta and I had to go to theatre for an epidural and manual removal. However all of this was done in a very quiet and measured way, with normal speaking voices, no emergency alarm and no appearance of panic. I became very unwell at one point in theatre, but again it was handled very calmly. I had an anaesthetic assistant holding my hand and explaining everything to me throughout.
Afterwards I was transferred to recovery, where DH & DS were allowed straight in and we did skin to skin and breastfed while I was given 4 units of blood. I had a day on HDU being monitored and then was transferred to the ward, although they wonderfully got me a side room so I could get more rest. I had a terrible experience of care (or lack of it) on the ward last time, but this time was completely different (admittedly different hospital).
I later found out I had lost 3L of blood and they were really quite concerned about me at one point. But at no point in the experience did I feel afraid or like I was going to die, unlike when it happened the first time.
It was my worst fear having another big PPH, but it happened and it was all ok. The medical team were prepared and calm and also aware that I'd found it traumatic the last time and seemed to take extra care to keep things calm. DH & I were also more prepared for the fact that it might happen so weren't as thrown by things not being "perfect". It wasn't scary in the same way as last time at all. The last few days have been a bit rough physically, but mentally I've been fine and that has just made everything so much easier to cope with.
I hope this hasn't upset anyone. I know it's not the perfect birth story you'd hope for, but I just wanted to say that having another PPH needn't be a huge trauma like the first time. DH & I will look back on DS's birth with mainly good memories. Good luck to you ladies!